I Fight with my mother and want to redecorate

I dreamed me and my boyfriend moved in together. He painted the walls inside our house pink. They seemed nice at first, even though you could still see the wallpaper through the paint in some spots.

Meanwhile, my mother (she didn't look like my real mother, she was a made-up character) yelled at me. At first, during the fight, I was viewing as if it was someone else. The fight itself was something about a shawl that belonged to my mother that I really liked and wanted to wear. But, anyways, I stomped off very upset with her.

I realized I really didn't like the pink walls anymore. I wanted to repaint them right now without my boyfriend's help! In fact, I wanted to redecorate the whole damn place right this minute! I thought about how I could go out and buy paint myself and paint the house, but then I wondered if I could get the coating even like my bf had... even though he really hadn't gotten it even at all. I was still so angry about the fight that I went to throw all the pans on the counter in the kitchen on the floor, but then I realized I shouldn't make a huge mess just because I was angry.

Later, I came back to where my mother was. My mother was distracted with my little brother. I felt slightly jealous that she was being so nice to him, but mostly I was just glad she wasn't yelling at me anymore. I took the shawl and wrapped it around me, feeling glad that we were at some moment of peace.

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Quoted from Dreammoods.com:

To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him.

To see a new house in your dream, indicates that you are entering into a new phase or new area in your life. You are becoming more emotionally mature. 

Pink represents love, joy, sweetness, happiness, affection and kindness. Being in love or healing through love is also implied with this color. Alternatively, the color implies immaturity or weakness, especially when it comes to love. Consider also the notion of getting "pink slipped". Pink is also the color for Breast Cancer Awareness.If you dislike the color pink, then it may stem from issues of dependency or problems with your parents. 

 To dream that you are having a conversation with your mother, denotes a matter that has preoccupied your mind and you are not sure how to deal with it in your waking life. It indicates unresolved problems that need to be worked out with your mother.

To see or wear a shawl in your dream, signifies comfort. You feel well protected.

 To see a mess in your dream, symbolizes the state of your waking life. You need to get your life in order.

perhaps the dream could be telling you that if "you can't stand the heat, then you need to get out of the kitchen". You need to abort your plans.

1. My boyfriend and I are moving into a new phase of life together. This new phase where we're together will be full of:
A. Love, joy, sweetness, happiness, affection, and kindness.
B. Being in love/healing through love.
C. Immaturity or weakness, especially when it comes to love.

2. In walking life I need to express some or all of these more often:

A. Love, joy, sweetness, happiness, affection, and kindness.

B. Being in love/healing through love.

C. Immaturity or weakness, especially when it comes to love.

3. I want my mother's:
A. comfort
B. love
C. protection.

4. When I don't feel comfortable, loved or protected I:
A. Realize I have dependency issues.
B. Want, desperately, to express my self, but feel I will be unable to do it properly.
C. Feel very frustrated.
D. Want to change but fail because I feel I will be unable to do it properly.
E. Understand that I need to abort whatever plans that involved her or any sort of dependence on her.

5. In this state, I also:
A. Almost make a huge mess of my life, barely catching myself.
B. Prevent myself from expressing my anger when I think others are watching.
C. Have failing health.

6. Once I realize my mother is distracted from/not angry with me, I:
A. Feel safe/comfortable again.

Some of this does sound familiar...